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Leadem Counseling & Consulting Services, P.C. offers a variety of wellness books, books on addiction, meditation books, and many others for sale at our offices and through our online book store. We currently have supplies of books ready for shipment which cover topics our clients have found to be a useful aid to therapy. A child raising book like Raising Self-Reliant Children in a Self-Indulgent World, by Jane Nelsen can be a great asset to you home library. The books on addiction we have chosen can be a valuable asset when used in conjunction with counseling services for children and adolescents, marriage and family counseling, individual and couples therapy, as well as treatment for addictive illnesses. These and many other therapy services are available at both of our offices and through online counseling.

The books on addiction will dove tail the material you are familiar with in 12 Step program literature. The works of John Powell have been a great inspiration to us personally and most helpful in working with our clients suffering with addiction and looking for ways of enhancing their personal growth. In the section on Meditation and 12 Step guides you will find a growing selection of material designed to guide you through actions associated with developing a firm spiritual basis to your recovery and successfully negotiate your way through the 12 Steps. The series of meditation books we are creating will be available in the months to come. The first edition is entitled One In the Spirit: A course in meditations for recovering couples. The meditation books that are under development will deal with relationships with support group, family members and parent-child relationships.

The parenting section features a number of excellent texts for improving your child rearing skills and understanding the meaning behind your child's most challenging behaviors. We are sure that you will find a child raising book to help you with the challenges you are facing. A child raising book, like Children the Challenge, by Rudolph Dreikurs can help you unravel the mystery of parenting. Raising a child can be one of life's most difficult and rewarding tasks.

The meditation books featured are a selection of our favorites. The Series we have designed is new and intensely practical. Our guides direct your attention to the spiritual and emotional needs of intimate relationships and are closely aligned with the tenants of 12 Step recovery programs. The meditation books provide many different ways to examine life and relationships in your day to day walk.

Our staff is a highly trained clinical team with proven expertise in treating the following problem areas: drug and alcohol addiction, codependency, gambling addiction, eating disorders, and sexual addiction.  Services are available in individual, group, and online counseling settings to addresses the needs of individuals seeking help in the areas of marriage and family counseling as well as child and adolescent counseling.   Our online counseling model for addressing addiction counseling problems is compatible with the tenants of all 12 Step programs. Please see our link to Treatment of Addictive Behaviors for a full review of the recovery models we support.

Future book store offerings will include materials that the Professional Training Division is selecting to support professional growth and development. Materials selected will complement the training events that we are planning. We are committed to the provision of comprehensive continuing education programs for professionals in the fields of education, health, and human services that are certified by the applicable accrediting body. We are currently offering a three part series entitled Why Must They Suffer So Long? The program addresses the problems encountered by parents and professionals seeking to help children and adolescents who are at risk of developing a harmful dependency on mood-altering substances. The training promotes the use of intervention strategies based in the rich experiences we have gained in our work with individuals involved various 12 Step programs. Future programming will focus on a task-centered model for treating individuals suffering with Sexual Addictions.

We are beginning to build an inventory of books to support our work with families coping with learning disabilities. Our Education Division offers Special Education Advocacy services to families in need of professional support to acquire needed services for their learning disabled children. Human service professionals and educators are welcome to attend our free parent advocacy training programs. Contact us for more information.

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Parenting

Answers To Distraction

Answers To Distraction
Edward M. Hallowel, MD and John J. Ratey, MD

The authors' provide practical solutions to the dilemmas of ADD. This "user's guide" to ADD is presented in question-and-answer format ideal for even the most distractible reader. Each chapter covers a specific aspect of ADD, such as ADD in women, ADD and aggression, ADD and addiction, or ADD and work. The authors provide advice for teachers on recognizing ADD and helping students to cope, plus extraordinary insights into the relationship difficulties caused by ADD.

$13.95

Children: The Challenge

Children: The Challenge
Rudolph Dreikurs, M.D. 

Offers excellent advice and proven strategies for parents who want to build love and trust in their families through the use of natural and logical consequences rather than punishment or behavior modification reinforcers.

$14.79 

Driven To Distraction

 

Driven To Distraction
Edward M. Hallowel, MD and John J. Ratey, MD

This book helped us to view our child's distractibility and impulsivity in a very different light. We had spent many years "blaming the victim" for not being motivated and not trying hard enough. Our child may have been driven to distraction and we had been driven to the brink of a benevolent dictatorship. This book helped to change our views.

$14.97

From Emotions to Advocacy

From Emotions to Advocacy
Peter & Pam Wright

Authors teach you how to plan, prepare, organize - and get - quality special education services. In this comprehensive, easy-to-read book, you learn about your child's disability and educational needs, a simple method for organizing your child's file, devising a master plan for your child's special education and negotiating for special education services. This practical user-friendly book includes hundreds of strategies, tips, references, warnings, and Internet resources and includes dozens of worksheets, forms, and sample letters that you can tailor to your needs.

$29.99
The New Approach to Discipline

The New Approach to Discipline 
Rudolph Dreikurs, M.D.

Offers practical suggestions on ways of establishing rapport and authority without struggling with reward systems that do not fit with your family values.

$13.73 
Positive Discipline for Preschoolers Positive Discipline for Preschoolers
Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.

Methods for using kind but firm support to raise a child who is responsible, respectful, and resourceful.

$17.97 
Positive Discipline A-Z

Positive Discipline A-Z
Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.

Methods for encouraging the use of natural and logical consequences in a wide variety of situations.

$17.97
Positive Time Out

Positive Time Out
Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.

Shows teachers and parents how to make "time out" a positive learning experience for children.

$13.73
Raising Self-Reliant Children

Raising Self-Reliant Children
H. Stephen Glenn, Ph.D., and Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.

While the argument rages between strict and permissive parenting, both sides miss the point. If our goal as parents and educators is to help children become capable adults, then teaching them to make proper decisions and become self-reliant is paramount. In the tenth anniversary edition of this bestseller, authors and educational speakers Glenn and Nelsen provide an inspiring, workable formula for developing closeness, trust, dignity, and respect, as well as for creating self-discipline, responsibility, good judgment, and perseverance in children. With their help, you will be able to provide your children with character-building traits that last a lifetime.

$15.95
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Personal Growth

Fully Human, Fully Alive

Fully Human, Fully Alive
John Powell

Faith, hope, and love make a person fully human and fully alive. The recovery community will enjoy Powell's humanistic guide to becoming a whole person.

$13.73 
I'll Quit Tomorrow

I'll Quit Tomorrow: A Practical Guide to Alcoholism Treatment
Vernon E Johnson

A book which offers proof that alcoholism is a treatable disease. It describes the emotional syndrome accompanying relapse and the significance of blackouts, and it outlines an approach to intervention and treatment that can arrest the progress of the disease and return the alcoholic to a happier, more productive life. This best selling recovery classic has helped untold thousands of alcoholics onto the road to recovery.

$13.95
In The Meantime

In The Meantime
Iyanla Vanzant

You know where you want to be, but you have no clue how to get there. You know exactly what you want in life, but what you want is nowhere in sight. Perhaps your vision is unclear, your purpose still undefined. On top of it all, your relationships, particularly your romantic relationships, are failing. If these scenarios feel familiar way down in the deepest part of your gut, then you, my dear, are smack dab in the middle of the meantime. The best-selling author of Acts of Faith and The Value in the Valley -- whose books have empowered countless women -- now reaches out to anyone who yearns for love, in a book about relationships that can help them reach new levels of awareness, spiritual growth, and fulfillment.

$13.00
In the Shadows of the Net

In the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior
Patrick Carnes, Ph.D., David L. Delmonico, Ph.D., Elizabeth Griffin, M.A. with Joseph M. Moriarity

 

$20.95
Playing It by Heart

Playing It by Heart
Melody Beattie

Beattie acknowledges that the struggle against codependency is continuous, and many in recovery find themselves slipping back into the old, self-destructive ways that brought them so much pain. Playing It by Heart helps them to understand why they return to the grasp of controlling behavior and victim-hood, and shows them how to free themselves and find the healing, faith and maturity that come with a commitment to recovery.

$15.00
Something More

Something More
Sarah Ban Breathnach

The author of Simple Abundance follows up that bestseller with a provocative and powerful book that has become a life "bible" for women around the world. In this insightful and eloquent book, Sarah Ban Breathnach explores the nine stages necessary to living authentically: Sensing, Surviving, Settling, Stumbling, Selling Out, Starting Over, Searching, Striving, and finally, Something More.

$21.00
Spirituality of Imperfection

Spirituality of Imperfection
Ernest Kurtz and Katherine Ketcham

Who are we? Why so we so often fall short of our goals for ourselves and others? By seeking to understand our limitations and accept the inevitability of failure and pain, we begin to ease the hurt and move toward a greater sense of serenity and self-awareness. The Spirituality Of Imperfection brings together stories from many spiritual and philosophical paths, weaving past traditions into a spirituality and a new way of thinking and living that works today.

$15.95
Talk, Trust, Feel

Talk, Trust, Feel
A Hazelden Book

For all of us recovering from codependency, especially those working the Twelve Steps, TALK, TRUST, AND FEEL offers reinforcement and inspiring perspectives from 10 of Hazelden's leading voices. Their wise observations help us let go of our desire to change the other person and take responsibility for ourselves as we continue our journey toward wholeness.

$6.99
Worry: Controlling It and Using It Wisely

Worry: Controlling It and Using It Wisely
Dr. Edward M. Hallowell

The author explores every degree of worry, from healthy worry to hard-core paranoia. " Not all worry is bad," says Hallowell. One must distinguish between "wise worry that alerts you to real danger" and "unwise worry that serves no useful purpose and can hamper your life." In Worry, his latest and most engaging book, the Harvard Medical School senior lecturer examines "toxic" worry and its underlying causes and manifestations, and he offers various means for regaining control.

$19.96

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Daily Meditation

24-Hours A Day

24-Hours A Day
Author Unknown

A classic guide to prayer & meditation for recovering alcoholics. The entries are both practical and inspirational.

$12.72
God Calling

God Calling
A. J. Russell

The spiritual dialogues presented in this guide to daily mediation will help you to raise your God consciousness and show you how to make your relationship with a higher power more personal.

$8.43
Jesus 2000

Jesus 2000
Mark Link

The author has collected inspirational stories to support a valuable collection of scriptural references to prepare the reader for a spiritually focused day.

$9.49
Through Seasons of The Heart

Through Seasons of The Heart
John Powell

Powell has drawn from a variety of works to generate meditative themes which can be used to enhance one's spiritual journey.

$17.97
The Soul of Sponsorship

The Soul of Sponsorship
Robert Fitzgerald, SJ

Fitzgerald explores the relationship of Bill Wilson, cofounder of Alcoholics Anonymous, and his spiritual adviser and friend, Father Ed Dowling.

$9.95
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Relationships

Why Am I Afraid To Tell You Who I Am?

Why Am I Afraid To Tell You Who I Am?
John Powell  

Insights into self-awareness, personal growth, and honest communication. Powell's insight into the masks we wear is very valuable in understanding our defects of character.

$13.73
Why Am I Afraid To Love?

Why Am I Afraid To Love?
John Powell

Overcoming fears that limit our potential for enjoying love and life. The author provides a spiritual way of understanding the obstacles many of us face when trying to heal a troubled romance.

$13.73
The Secret of Staying In Love

The Secret of Staying In Love
John Powell

Communication is essentially an act of pure love and the secret of staying in love. The communication problems which many recovering couples experience can stand in the way of healing the relationship.

$13.73
Unconditional Love

Unconditional Love
John Powell

A meaningful life can result only from the experience of love, and this implies a commitment & dedication to another.

$13.73
Is It Love or Is It Addiction?

Is It Love or Is It Addiction?
Brenda Schaffer

Schaffer has developed a fresh perspective on intimacy and an invaluable practical guide to making relationships work. It has been joked that relationships are like Miracle-Grow for defects of character. Come see how to make the changes you need.

$15.95
Out of the Shadows

Out of the Shadows
Patrick Carnes, PhD

The author helps you understand how and why you fall into love and sex addiction and provides ways to identify and get out of it. Sort out the unhealthy, addictive elements in your relationship, while you learn new things about accepting yourself and others.

$16.00
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12-Step Work

Feeling Guide Through A Personal Inventory - 4th Step Guide
John & Elaine Leadem

 

The Forgotten Steps - 6th & 7th Step Guide
John & Elaine Leadem

These guides is intended to provide you with emotional and spiritual support as you progress through the completion of your 4th Step and the 6th & 7th Steps. The format used is appropriate for individuals in all 12 Step fellowships.

The Feeling Guide Through A Personal Inventory is helpful for those who report genuine confusion about the ways in which they have harmed others because it uses reflective tasks to trigger feeling memories of what has transpired. The introductory sections of the guide will provide the user who is undertaking his/her first 4th step with a solid base for understanding the purpose of completing such an inventory and how to overcome the common obstacles which can make it a difficult step to complete. Individuals who are undertaking a "focus inventory" on relationships or on a specific problem area will find the recommended tasks helpful in identifying the personality changes they will need to undertake to improve the quality of their intimate relationships. We hope you will enjoy the journey. The guide’s production has provided us with many intellectual and emotional challenges that caused us to continually evaluate our own behavior and motivations.

You are welcome to email the authors with questions that develop during your completion of the inventory. We will provide you with as much additional direction as is necessary to complete this important step.

$16.95 each

Discounts available for orders of five or more guides.

Meditations for Couples

One In The Spirit: A Meditation Course for Recovering Couples
John & Elaine Leadem

These daily meditations are intended to provide you with emotional and spiritual support helpful in growing a stronger relationship. The daily meditations can be used privately or with your partner. It is our suggestion that each partner read the daily meditations privately and reflect on its meaning in his/her own life. Every day of the year offers a unique challenge, a reflection and a prayer.

TBD
Weekend Workshop for Couples

Weekend Workshop for Couples has not yet been released.

If you're interested in being contacted when publishing is completed, please send us an e-mail.

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