Leadem
Counseling & Consulting Services, P.C. offers a variety
of wellness books, books on addiction, meditation books,
and many others for sale at our offices and through our
online book store. We currently have supplies of books ready
for shipment which cover topics our clients have found to
be a useful aid to therapy. A child raising book
like Raising Self-Reliant Children in a Self-Indulgent
World, by Jane Nelsen can be a great asset to you home
library. The books on addictionwe have chosen
can be a valuable asset when used in conjunction with counseling
services for children and adolescents, marriage and family
counseling, individual and couples therapy, as well as treatment
for addictive illnesses. These and many other therapy services
are available at both of our offices and through online
counseling.
The books
on addiction will dove tail the material you are familiar
with in 12 Step program literature. The works of John Powell
have been a great inspiration to us personally and most
helpful in working with our clients suffering with addiction
and looking for ways of enhancing their personal growth.
In the section on Meditation and 12 Step guides you
will find a growing selection of material designed to guide
you through actions associated with developing a firm spiritual
basis to your recovery and successfully negotiate your way
through the 12 Steps. The series ofmeditation
bookswe are creating will be available in the
months to come. The first edition is entitled One In
the Spirit: A course in meditations for recovering couples.
The meditation books that are under development
will deal with relationships with support group, family
members and parent-child relationships.
The parenting
section features a number of excellent texts for improving
your child rearing skills and understanding the meaning
behind your child's most challenging behaviors. We are sure
that you will find a child raising book to help you
with the challenges you are facing. A child raising
book, like Children the Challenge, by Rudolph
Dreikurs can help you unravel the mystery of parenting.
Raising a child can be one of life's most difficult and
rewarding tasks.
The meditation
books featured are a selection of our favorites. The
Series we have designed is new and intensely practical.
Our guides direct your attention to the spiritual and emotional
needs of intimate relationships and are closely aligned
with the tenants of 12 Step recovery programs. The
meditation books provide many different ways to examine
life and relationships in your day to day walk.
Our staff
is a highly trained clinical team with proven expertise
in treating the following problem areas: drug and alcohol
addiction, codependency, gambling addiction, eating disorders,
and sexual addiction. Services are available in individual, group,
and online counseling settings to addresses the needs of
individuals seeking help in the areas of marriage and family
counseling as well as child and adolescent counseling.
Our online counseling model for addressing addiction counseling
problems is compatible with the tenants of all 12 Step
programs. Please see our link to Treatment of Addictive
Behaviors for a full review of the recovery models we support.
Future
book store offerings will include materials that the Professional
Training Division is selecting to support professional growth
and development. Materials selected will complement the
training events that we are planning. We are committed to
the provision of comprehensive continuing education programs
for professionals in the fields of education, health, and
human services that are certified by the applicable accrediting
body. We are currently offering a three part series entitled
Why Must They Suffer So Long? The program addresses
the problems encountered by parents and professionals seeking
to help children and adolescents who are at risk of developing
a harmful dependency on mood-altering substances. The training
promotes the use of intervention strategies based in the
rich experiences we have gained in our work with individuals
involved various 12 Step programs. Future programming
will focus on a task-centered model for treating individuals
suffering with Sexual Addictions.
We are
beginning to build an inventory of books to support our
work with families coping with learning disabilities. Our
Education Division offers Special Education Advocacy services
to families in need of professional support to acquire needed
services for their learning disabled children. Human service
professionals and educators are welcome to attend our free
parent advocacy training programs. Contact us for more information.
Place
your order by calling 732-797-1444
or download our Mail-Order
Form.
Parenting
Answers
To Distraction Edward M. Hallowel, MD and John J. Ratey, MD
The
authors' provide practical solutions to the dilemmas of
ADD. This "user's guide" to ADD is presented in
question-and-answer format ideal for even the most distractible
reader. Each chapter covers a specific aspect of ADD, such
as ADD in women, ADD and aggression, ADD and addiction,
or ADD and work. The authors provide advice for teachers
on recognizing ADD and helping students to cope, plus extraordinary
insights into the relationship difficulties caused by ADD.
$13.95
Children:
The Challenge Rudolph Dreikurs, M.D.
Offers excellent advice and proven strategies for parents
who want to build love and trust in their families through
the use of natural and logical consequences rather than
punishment or behavior modification reinforcers.
$14.79
Driven
To Distraction Edward M. Hallowel, MD and John J. Ratey, MD
This
book helped us to view our child's distractibility and impulsivity
in a very different light. We had spent many years "blaming
the victim" for not being motivated and not trying
hard enough. Our child may have been driven to distraction
and we had been driven to the brink of a benevolent dictatorship.
This book helped to change our views.
$14.97
From
Emotions to Advocacy
Peter & Pam Wright
Authors
teach you how to plan, prepare, organize - and get - quality
special education services. In this comprehensive, easy-to-read
book, you learn about your child's disability and educational
needs, a simple method for organizing your child's file,
devising a master plan for your child's special education
and negotiating for special education services. This practical
user-friendly book includes hundreds of strategies, tips,
references, warnings, and Internet resources and includes
dozens of worksheets, forms, and sample letters that you
can tailor to your needs.
$29.99
The
New Approach to Discipline Rudolph Dreikurs, M.D.
Offers practical suggestions on ways of establishing rapport
and authority without struggling with reward systems that
do not fit with your family values.
$13.73
Positive
Discipline for Preschoolers Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.
Methods
for using kind but firm support to raise a child who is
responsible, respectful, and resourceful.
$17.97
Positive
Discipline A-Z Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.
Methods
for encouraging the use of natural and logical consequences
in a wide variety of situations.
$17.97
Positive
Time Out Jane
Nelsen, Ed.D.
Shows
teachers and parents how to make "time out" a
positive learning experience for children.
$13.73
Raising
Self-Reliant Children H. Stephen Glenn, Ph.D., and Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.
While
the argument rages between strict and permissive parenting,
both sides miss the point. If our goal as parents and educators
is to help children become capable adults, then teaching
them to make proper decisions and become self-reliant is
paramount. In the tenth anniversary edition of this bestseller,
authors and educational speakers Glenn and Nelsen provide
an inspiring, workable formula for developing closeness,
trust, dignity, and respect, as well as for creating self-discipline,
responsibility, good judgment, and perseverance in children.
With their help, you will be able to provide your children
with character-building traits that last a lifetime.
Faith,
hope, and love make a person fully human and fully alive.
The recovery community will enjoy Powell's humanistic guide
to becoming a whole person.
$13.73
I'll
Quit Tomorrow: A Practical Guide to Alcoholism Treatment
Vernon E Johnson
A book
which offers proof that alcoholism is a treatable disease.
It describes the emotional syndrome accompanying relapse
and the significance of blackouts, and it outlines an approach
to intervention and treatment that can arrest the progress
of the disease and return the alcoholic to a happier, more
productive life. This best selling recovery classic has helped
untold thousands of alcoholics onto the road to recovery.
$13.95
In
The Meantime Iyanla Vanzant
You
know where you want to be, but you have no clue how to get
there. You know exactly what you want in life, but what
you want is nowhere in sight. Perhaps your vision is unclear,
your purpose still undefined. On top of it all, your relationships,
particularly your romantic relationships, are failing. If
these scenarios feel familiar way down in the deepest part
of your gut, then you, my dear, are smack dab in the middle
of the meantime. The best-selling author of Acts of Faith
and The Value in the Valley -- whose books have empowered
countless women -- now reaches out to anyone who yearns
for love, in a book about relationships that can help them
reach new levels of awareness, spiritual growth, and fulfillment.
$13.00
In
the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online
Sexual Behavior
Patrick Carnes, Ph.D., David L. Delmonico, Ph.D., Elizabeth
Griffin, M.A. with Joseph M. Moriarity
$20.95
Playing
It by Heart Melody Beattie
Beattie
acknowledges that the struggle against codependency is continuous,
and many in recovery find themselves slipping back into
the old, self-destructive ways that brought them so much
pain. Playing It by Heart helps them to understand why they
return to the grasp of controlling behavior and victim-hood,
and shows them how to free themselves and find the healing,
faith and maturity that come with a commitment to recovery.
$15.00
Something
More Sarah Ban Breathnach
The
author of Simple Abundance follows up that bestseller with
a provocative and powerful book that has become a life "bible"
for women around the world. In this insightful and eloquent
book, Sarah Ban Breathnach explores the nine stages necessary
to living authentically: Sensing, Surviving, Settling, Stumbling,
Selling Out, Starting Over, Searching, Striving, and finally,
Something More.
$21.00
Spirituality
of Imperfection Ernest Kurtz and Katherine Ketcham
Who
are we? Why so we so often fall short of our goals for ourselves
and others? By seeking to understand our limitations and
accept the inevitability of failure and pain, we begin to
ease the hurt and move toward a greater sense of serenity
and self-awareness. The Spirituality Of Imperfection brings
together stories from many spiritual and philosophical paths,
weaving past traditions into a spirituality and a new way
of thinking and living that works today.
$15.95
Talk,
Trust, Feel A Hazelden Book
For
all of us recovering from codependency, especially those
working the Twelve Steps, TALK, TRUST, AND FEEL offers reinforcement
and inspiring perspectives from 10 of Hazelden's leading
voices. Their wise observations help us let go of our desire
to change the other person and take responsibility for ourselves
as we continue our journey toward wholeness.
$6.99
Worry:
Controlling It and Using It Wisely Dr. Edward M. Hallowell
The
author explores every degree of worry, from healthy worry
to hard-core paranoia. " Not all worry is bad,"
says Hallowell. One must distinguish between "wise
worry that alerts you to real danger" and "unwise
worry that serves no useful purpose and can hamper your
life." In Worry, his latest and most engaging book,
the Harvard Medical School senior lecturer examines "toxic"
worry and its underlying causes and manifestations, and
he offers various means for regaining control.
A classic
guide to prayer & meditation for recovering alcoholics.
The entries are both practical and inspirational.
$12.72
God
Calling A. J. Russell
The
spiritual dialogues presented in this guide to daily mediation
will help you to raise your God consciousness and show you
how to make your relationship with a higher power more personal.
$8.43
Jesus
2000 Mark Link
The
author has collected inspirational stories to support a
valuable collection of scriptural references to prepare
the reader for a spiritually focused day.
$9.49
Through
Seasons of The Heart John Powell
Powell
has drawn from a variety of works to generate meditative
themes which can be used to enhance one's spiritual journey.
$17.97
The
Soul of Sponsorship Robert Fitzgerald, SJ
Fitzgerald
explores the relationship of Bill Wilson, cofounder of Alcoholics
Anonymous, and his spiritual adviser and friend, Father
Ed Dowling.
Insights
into self-awareness, personal growth, and honest communication.
Powell's insight into the masks we wear is very valuable
in understanding our defects of character.
$13.73
Why
Am I Afraid To Love? John Powell
Overcoming
fears that limit our potential for enjoying love and life.
The author provides a spiritual way of understanding the
obstacles many of us face when trying to heal a troubled
romance.
$13.73
The
Secret of Staying In Love John Powell
Communication
is essentially an act of pure love and the secret of staying
in love. The communication problems which many recovering
couples experience can stand in the way of healing the relationship.
$13.73
Unconditional
Love John Powell
A meaningful
life can result only from the experience of love, and this
implies a commitment & dedication to another.
$13.73
Is
It Love or Is It Addiction? Brenda Schaffer
Schaffer
has developed a fresh perspective on intimacy and an invaluable
practical guide to making relationships work. It has been
joked that relationships are like Miracle-Grow for defects
of character. Come see how to make the changes you need.
$15.95
Out
of the Shadows Patrick Carnes, PhD
The
author helps you understand how and why you fall into love
and sex addiction and provides ways to identify and get
out of it. Sort out the unhealthy, addictive elements in
your relationship, while you learn new things about accepting
yourself and others.
Feeling
Guide Through A Personal Inventory - 4th Step Guide John
& Elaine Leadem
The
Forgotten Steps - 6th & 7th Step Guide John & Elaine Leadem
These
guides is intended to provide you with emotional and spiritual
support as you progress through the completion of your 4th
Step and the 6th & 7th Steps. The format used is appropriate
for individuals in all 12 Step fellowships.
The
Feeling Guide Through A Personal Inventory is helpful for
those who report genuine confusion about the ways in which
they have harmed others because it uses reflective tasks
to trigger feeling memories of what has transpired. The
introductory sections of the guide will provide the user
who is undertaking his/her first 4th step with a solid base
for understanding the purpose of completing such an inventory
and how to overcome the common obstacles which can make
it a difficult step to complete. Individuals who are undertaking
a "focus inventory" on relationships or on a specific
problem area will find the recommended tasks helpful in
identifying the personality changes they will need to undertake
to improve the quality of their intimate relationships.
We hope you will enjoy the journey. The guide’s production
has provided us with many intellectual and emotional challenges
that caused us to continually evaluate our own behavior
and motivations.
You
are welcome to email
the authors with questions that develop during your
completion of the inventory. We will provide you with as
much additional direction as is necessary to complete this
important step.
$16.95
each
Discounts
available for orders of five or more guides.
Meditations
for Couples
One
In The Spirit: A Meditation Course for Recovering Couples John
& Elaine Leadem
These
daily meditations are intended to provide you with emotional
and spiritual support helpful in growing a stronger relationship.
The daily meditations can be used privately or with your
partner. It is our suggestion that each partner read the
daily meditations privately and reflect on its meaning in
his/her own life. Every day of the year offers a unique
challenge, a reflection and a prayer.
TBD
Weekend
Workshop for Couples
Weekend
Workshop for Couples has not yet been released.
If
you're interested in being contacted when publishing is
completed, please send us an e-mail.